The arkansas findings showed that “the most significant predictor of dangerous mobile phone usage was answering text messages while driving.  don't ever think the other person is sitting around thinking about you. Perhaps we haven't revised a book chapter, haven't planned the last details of a trip, haven't asked out someone on whom we have a crush. John doe began severely harassing me through text messages on (date). Generally, setting an evening limit on phone calls and texts is a good idea. It must also be unfathomable that he would propose to me out of pure love, since she assumes he would only do it for knocking someone up (and no. , recently surveyed students at two local high schools and said he found that many were routinely sending hundreds of texts every day. Since they are not doing that, it means they are busy or think you've already connected enough lately or have other things to be doing that don't need your hand-holding. Ultimately, an acceptable text limit should not be about how many texts your child is sending but about how much total time is spent texting and whether her messaging habits are interfering with a healthy life balance. Social media sites and instant messaging programs make it easy for you to report unwanted and abusive messages and friend requests, but when someone texts you endlessly or inappropriately, there's no quick fix. So, you always need a text messaging account that will monitor how many messages are sent. These cyberstalkers do not tend to have criminal records and have a medium to high level of computer literacy. Joffe says parents tend to be far less aware of texting than of, say, video game playing or general computer use, and the unlimited plans often mean that parents stop paying attention to billing details. In terms of responding to a message, i would say waiting 10-20 minutes after receiving a text is plenty of time to show that you aren’t too hard to get but not too obsessive. It gave me time to reflect on how silly it is to get upset when a text isn’t answered for four hours. Some cases involved victims that met through online dating forums. As jmtmj said it depends on the person. Sms messages also comes in handy if you are some place crowded or noisy where you cannot use your phone due to the noise or environment. She backed off for a while, though a few months later, she contacted him again supposedly wanting to give him his box of things back. Therefore, this study attempts to expand upon existing research to focus on the impact that texting has on relationships, specifically those that are romantic in nature. She proceeded to ask him if it was true we were engaged. During this stage, obsessive ex’s will try to use intimidation in the way of contact, making threats or any other unlawful trespassing to try to win their ex back. The survey did not restrict the sample pool by demographics but did require that all respondents own a cell phone. He was telling me this story in the car on the way home the very evening it happened, when his phone beeped from a text message. Obsessive gardener make this an evening where that you have to listen to one another. When our obsession with beauty is pointed out as obviously as it is in the cases of dunham’s and hoffman’s, people are eager to offer their support. In those scenarios, i think what i feel towards her is love, it feels like i am discovering a, wonderful person and i just wish the best for her while she wishes the same for me (i think, at least). Disappearing messages could prove popular beyond social sharing, and could also be profitable, if businesses can be persuaded to pay for the services. The most common form of cyberbullying against children was threatening or aggressive e-mails or instant messages, reported by 74% of adults who knew of a case of cyberbullying against a child in their household. for some reason,we have to answer or send a text that asks, "what r u doing. Another claimed that it was ideal for making plans, since a text message provides documentation of an address or directions to a location. Thus, we seek to determine if text messaging is a useful and effective strategy to help maintain abstinence, improve adherence with medication and ultimately promote mental stability in depressed patients discharged from an in-patient dual diagnosis programme. Is 'a teacher's obsession' a true story. It causes nothing but problems. Kardec proposed a classification of obsessions into three levels (of severity):. When do they find time. It says it right there in the rulebook under the section about waiting three days to call after you get a number and above section explaining that you can pregnant from the toilet seat. Is there any way of getting over an obsession of how someone looks like. Some people who send an excessive amount of text messages and e-mails may have a mental illness, according to new american experts. If children report stress, or if texting seems to be interfering with their daily lives, parents should intervene. You’ll know you are obsessed if you are texting while driving, texting in the wee hours of the night instead of sleeping, or getting into text message wars with someone involving dozens if not hundreds of back and forth anger flamings or sexting texts. Iâd better have a wash. If my blogs and my email can help just one person stand up and confront their obsessive ex, then losing a few people from my group who would rather judge me than learn anything from my experiences will have been worth it. My fiance said she was never strange or obsessive before. Prosecutor clair byers said the woman had been visiting the hospital on a daily basis to be with her daughter. This type of obsession disturbs both the medium and those for whom he is carrying messages, especially because the medium may let slip random sentences due to influence of the obsessor(s), much to the surprise of those present. Praying for god's protection and guidance whenever one's will is weakened. At its worst, obsession is an iron mask that permits us to gaze in only one direction at one thing—or, to use another metaphor, a giant tidal wave that crashes through our minds and washes away all other concerns. The challenge then is to make our obsessions function positively, controlling them so they don't control us, extracting the benefit of obsession without succumbing to its detriments. Well, i’m not afraid of being judged anymore. You hear of people who can’t seem to shake off their ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Obviously in the beginning they should feel more effortless then after a few years. If you do it from a work or school device, you could be fired and/or expelled. A living person influences someone else,. Lister-landman said there are steps parents can take if they believe compulsive texting is negatively affecting their teens. In the event that police need to speak to you about evidence, it is a breeze to pull out your matching copy and refer to "folder #6, page #4, paragraph #2" and so on. "cellphones are addictive in the same way slot machines are," said dr. Do this for at least 10 minutes before you let yourself go near your phone or computer. Being infatuated with a person that does not want to really communicate with you by phone much less get involved with you, is a major cause for obsessive texting problems. He puts his lips on mine, but don't worry: i'm a bottle of wine. But hang on i am worth his time. Here is how you may be able to eliminate the obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors:. I try to be very present in my immediate life and sometimes that means i can’t respond right away to text messages or voicemails or emails. This will be a powerful bet that you (pun intended) if desire to win some serious coin. Kolb, a former middle school and high social studies teacher and technology coordinator, said she was doing a blogging activity with a group of teachers when a message popped up on her screen telling her she could create an audio-blog with her cell phone. The cumulative effect of harassment causes victims to experience intimidation, as well as psychological and emotional distress. Berit "brit" brogaard is the author of . But i most certainly do not look at it so often anymore. Post the photos to a private space, such as flickr. Do not do anything to lead your ex on. Every single messaging, social, communications app in the future will have ephemeral capabilities,” sell says. On android, gryphn’s app replaces the stock sms texting app and encrypts outgoing messages and decrypts incoming messages. Kelly o’brien, director of the center of professional communication at the neeley school of business, said there are other concerns that apply to university students. "[i]t is clear from research on obsessional following that there is a difference between those who stalk public and private figures, and that the degree of prior relationship intimacy is an important variable, especially as it relates to risk for violence. I don’t want to disregard her wishes in anyway but i’d like to at least tell her how i’ve reflected and realized so much about myself and what i was doing so wrong to drain the friendship. While technology allowing us to send and receive expiring messages is not new, these apps offer a very simple way to exercise control over your data in a world where your so-called permanent record is now documented across the web. Texting has become a lot like alcohol. Obsessive gardenerobsessive gardener back in 1964 and prior, the u. After a while you build a tolerance to the text messaging and you get a high off it, needed to text constantly throughout the day. (although, if narcissists and compulsive people had their phones confiscated, they would find something else to indulge in and obsess over. “the fact is that they already value the cell phone as a professional tool. Audio and video calling with their friends and family members. The final time we broke up, he had started a relationship with someone else — very much overlapping our breakup. Based on their data from over 500 students from middle school, they concluded that "our data supports that there is a decline in grammar scores. Opp) and is also increasingly used elsewhere in canada and the united states. The perpetrator refuses to recognize that the relationship with the other person is over and the prevailing attitude is. Report it to the police — due to the rising use of texts as an abusive tool, the police are starting to view aggressive texting as serious business. This can help you to avoid repeating unhealthy relationship habits. One is that text messaging is impacting the english language by impacting teenager's ability to write english using proper punctuation and spelling. Technically, "obsession" is any unwanted influence of a spirit, when it alters or suppresses the normal manifestation of the personality of the subject. While the ocd explanation of increased usage of cell phones has been linked to a reaction based on incoming messages, the addiction explanation reinforces that the constant need between a back-and-forth communication exists in high levels of cell phone usage. Reinaâs grades have since improved, and the phone is back in her hands, but her text messages are limited to 5,000 per month â and none between 9 p. Now, i was free to not only compulsively text, but to check myspace whenever i wanted. I must say it is quite unattractive but god forbid you send a text that is longer than a few lines, that may come off as far too needy or obsessive. Admit to yourself that you have an obsession. It takes effort that actualkt results in something like growth. He proposed to me last month, and i guess she somehow found out. In particular, do not leave snarky or snivelling remarks about their whereabouts, about people they're engaging with online or about your hurt feelings. And perhaps, start fresh in the future if possible. On one occasion when she was out celebrating her 24th birthday she received 90 missed calls. Make a matching copy for yourself. Most of the discussions surrounding texting and teens have focused on the effect texting has on social skills and face-to-face social interactions, as well as it being a dangerous distraction while driving. Ever wanted to take pictures in a museum or at an event, but have been told flash photos aren't allowed. The answer is to fill your life with more people––this is where volunteering can help if you truly don't know anyone else. Texting may feed the self-centeredness of a narcissist and exacerbate symptoms of obsessive compulsive disorder. From below deck, and is thus reminded that his value as a slave. (3) every person who contravenes this section is guilty of. It’s the person that was madly in love with you and got rejected by you that is likely to become the stalker. (if we are having a conversation, i want to be the last one to have closed the conversation. You are here: home / business / how to forward an email as a text message. Simply because we could talk whenever we wanted, from anywhere, we began sending messages about incidental things to maintain contact with others. It is possible to take screenshots, but quite difficult for anything beyond a text-based message, since viewing the image requires you to tap a camera icon at the bottom of the display, then keep your finger perfectly still to keep the picture onscreen. If you feel yourself starting to over text someone who repeatedly tells you to stop, then at a certain point you really do need to stop. In the work place, text messaging should be kept personal, and students should be conscientious about interacting face to face with people every day, thompson added. Young kids and teens do video chat with their friends by using the social messaging apps free of cost. Everything you type in and save is there for good and the more you obsess in the online environment, the faster it becomes clear to more than just your partner that you have a boundary problem that just isn't healthy. Only when it shows offline, i get this sense of relief. There is abundant evidence that rates of comorbidity between substance use and depression are high (1, 2). The obsession is just s single world, but if go deep into the terminology of social media obsession, we need hours to explain this charismatic phenomenon. Note: all the upper mention activities when becoming the priority of young kids and teens, then they got obsession of social media. Interference with daily activites from driving to working means you are obsessed. This scale will measure changes in obsessive compulsive thoughts about alcohol over the 12 months of the study. I'm so happy i adore him he's perfect look how kind he is doing things for his mum. This happens when you become so obsessed with texting that you can’t stop yourself checking to see if you have text messages or from sending text messages. You won't need a ph. I think i’m gonna be crying for a while then the truth but it hurtzreply. i do hope that's not what is going on because his girlfriend is a childhood friend and doesn't deserve that. If you both work out, it'll be because you've enjoyed one another's company, found it really easy to spend time together and have not fallen apart when apart. Case in point: she texts, “i had such a great time with you last night. “add e-mail, blogging, im, tweets and other digital customs and you realize what kind of hurried, 24/7 communications system young people experience today,” bauerlein wrote. Kolb, who is now completing her doctorate in learning technologies at the university of michigan, says while she still thinks cell phones shouldn't be used inside the classroom, she believes there are ways to use a cell phone as “an anytime, anywhere, data-collection tool. She says she is not ready to start a new relationship after her previous one, but after reading this i think what she feels towards me is more similar to love than what i feel towards her. You can’t win ’em all, but at least you can win a few of them. You may even end up convincing yourself that you made this choice, when you were actually manipulated into it.
In canada, it appears that the primary motivation for stalking another person is more often a desire to control a former partner. Is initially uneasy upon meeting queequeg, but he quickly realizes. No, actually, it is a big deal, especially if those texts are harassing, insulting, or don't stop when you ask them to. What was your relationship like before the constant texts began. Across the board, texting was discussed as a quick, easy, and convenient way to get a message across. When it comes to texting, what constitutes abusive relationship behaviors. When i check off that task (check email, voice mails, text messages, etc…), omnifocus creates a new task automatically in 4 hours. According to the morningside recovery rehabilitation center, the average american spends 144 minutes a day using their phone. While this might be normal behavior, what happens with the texting where a nasty or hurtful or unwanted breakup happens. âif youâre being deluged by constant communication, the pressure to answer immediately is quite high,â she added. Love obsessional stalkers, on the other hand, can be obsessed in their love without believing that their target loves them. And not only that, when i write essays, i often write r u instead of are you. How many texts/calls a day is considered too needy or clingy. How often do i hear my friends stressfully question, “how long should i wait to text him/her back. According to an expert in the u. If you’re becoming obsessed with your person, afraid of losing them, analyze why. Uncontrolled, this form of obsession may cause the medium to be seen as mentally ill; at the least it will ridicule to him and destroy his self-esteem. We anxiously and obsessively wait and wait and wait for responses, but if we never get a response, we get down on ourselves for sending a message in the first place. Granted, even good relationships have a little bit of fixation mixed in with them (i must emphasize a little bit), but it is only during very occasional occurrences like arguments or when one or both partners are stressed. Tell her, “i might not be able to chat much today. Smartphone apps that send disappearing messages are gaining in popularity. Despite these health and legal risks, people appear likely to continue using mobile phones while driving. While this makes for good entertainment, it isn’t real life. Additionally, the conditions of work aboard the. Elephant journalis dedicated to "bringing together those working (and playing) to create enlightened society. “texting is a much different experience than calling somebody on a land line, where you might get their parents. The first step in treatment is recognizing you have a texting addiction. Text harassment is a form of stalking. You might not realize it, but your ex boyfriend still considers you being his fiancee. But the dfs says credit suisse and barclays used the defensive mechanism to exploit their own customers. Hopefully they don’t, but save any and all communications from your ex, including things like emails, text messages, notes, letters, voice messages. In the past few years, we've discovered there is nothing more dangerous than a politician or athlete with the ability to text. Especially, the t-shirt must have to be a tighter one. Don’t be timid, i gave you my number for a reason. Stop suddenly kids and teens to use the social media. About 95 percent of phones today have cameras, albeit poor ones. We would rather draw out text conversations than be forced to respond on the spot and perhaps reveal too much. Compulsive texting is a very frequent disorder. Every bad thing you text can have consequences. Moreover, the ability of the perpetrator to hide behind the mask of anonymity or to take on a false identity can make it very difficult, if not impossible, to tell the perpetrator to stop the harassment. Finally, remember that bombarding someone with constant texts, emails, ims, phone calls - unless they want to hear from you that much - gives the impression you have no life of your own, and "he" will see you as a pest. Soon the most obsessive brunch documenters of instagram and facebook could outdo one another in a new, more pungent manner—the scent text message. Often taking a solid step forward in some way frees you to walk away from an obsession temporarily to recharge your batteries. At the same time, texting can make a youngster feel frightened and overly exposed. Changes from baseline in scores on the young mania rating scale (ymrs). Texting can destroy reputations, careers, and lives. In other cases reviewed, perpetrators were known to tamper with the victim’s email, including the dissemination of slanderous messages to individuals on the victim’s address list and the distribution of threatening, abusive and/or excessive messages to the victim and others using email and text services. What do i mean by love and fixation. “plus, if they experience something they want to remember, it's a great way to make a memory,” kolb says. Long winded text rants and apologies and flames and love messages would be pretty common in a rocky on-off relationship. âthen you hear that these kids are responding to texts late at night. It's too needy to keep texting if they haven't replied to ask them why they didn't, or texting a lot without good reason just to ask what they're doing when you asked them 5 minutes ago. Footnote 73 cyberbullying is becoming a growing concern in many parts of the world. While participants felt that texting plays a crucial role in dating, many agreed that it can be detrimental to a relationship as well. " possible motivations include establishing dominance and control over the victim, retaliating for a perceived insult, bullying or humiliating the victim, or satisfying sadistic desires. All participants noted numerous benefits to text messaging. Members are welcomed to express frustration but must seek constructive solutions to problems. " lee argues that reading print media exposes people to variety andÂ creativityÂ in language that is not found in text messaging used among youth (lee). After the 10 minutes are up, check to see if your urge to call, text, or stalk your ex or check your phone is as strong as before. One last idea, if you don't want to go as far as to report an ex-boyfriend or annoying texter: after ignoring his messages for a few weeks or months, finally text back, “who is this. Brains of many cell-phone-using young adults react to ringing and vibrating smartphones as they would to the arrival of a loved one, a recent study in san diego suggests. Little texts asking about his family or telling him about her life. "--- even though it was she seeking him out, not the other way around. My friend with ubpd (waif i think) is constantly on his phone texting people--hundreds of texts a day. Break our relationship and maybe come back when i learn how to love. — i check social network applications while driving. Inability to focus on anything else, including work, because the obsessive relationship occupies all thoughts and consumes copious quantities of time. Th grade teacher who encouraged kids to text message each other about shakespeare as a way of studying for a unit review. How can we stem the tide of out-of-control texting. Smell, "as the sense of lust, desire and impulse it carries the stamp of animality," vroon quotes. In other words, because people now have a tool that allows them to receive work messages at home and family messages at work, they perceive the importance of each as greater. The ophone is part of a smell text messaging system cooked up by harvard professor david edwards and his co-inventor and former student, rachel field. If your ex recently broke up with you, and you can't seem to get him or her out of your mind and you find yourself texting, calling, or thinking about him nonstop, you're displaying symptoms that resemble those of obsessive-compulsive disorder. To register via the internet, go to www. My girl texts me lots during the day mainly to tell me little details and events. If your text interactions were transcribed into a document how would it appear to a person reading it. That’s not the only point though. According to pittsburgh's wtae, geraldine alcorn, a local middle school teacher, was charged with interference with custody of children, luring a child into a vehicle, and corruption of minors after allegedly becoming obsessed with her 11-year-old student. “i do believe ephemeral data’s the future. “what do people think when they come on campus, and we’re preoccupied by a device, instead of looking at the opportunities around us. Technology over the years has so much offered to the mankind. Even cingle mentions that he couldn't read his niece's text. "people can get really addicted to it because you can get away with it when you are not supposed to be. I was on alert and geared up for the next drama, the next crisis. Are people going to judge me for having an obsessive ex. On another hand, the obsession with the modern technology such as mobile phones, internet and social media making people addicted to it and they have such an obsession using these things no time ever before. Check out a few of these titles to get a better idea of what obsessive love might look like. "texting language is no different from other innovative forms of written expression that have emerged in the past" (crystal). ” this is another lesson from the billions of dollars of fines for bank misbehavior in recent years: if you’re going to abandon your principles, don’t put it in writing. They are happy for and proud of their partner’s accomplishments, even when those accomplishments are exclusive of the relationship. Make them pay for their cell phone bills, don't just pick up the tab and allow them to text at will. Block believes there are a number of reasons which need to be considered - motor vehicle accidents are caused by cell phone instant messaging, stalking and harassment via instant messaging, and instant messaging at social, educational and work functions where it creates problems. it’s sad but true, most women my age get turned off by awkward, too forward or just poor texting skills. A 'obsessive and jealous' man bombarded his ex-lover with hundreds of phone calls and texts during a two-month stalking campaign, a court heard. ” personal relationships are no longer personal, we seek out our friends help in most every case, which can be nice if your game needs some work but also bizarre because nothing seems private any longer. Contact your cell phone company and see what options are available for blocking or turning off the text option. She believes that it's all misconceptions that text messages are all made up of abbreviated words (wood, plester & joshi, 2009). Why is there not a more suitable rejection text if it really is due to last look. Ironically, your texting obsession may be the very thing that is driving them away. "the message was incomprehensible because the use of shorthand phrases," he said (cingle & sundar). The most important step (besides having all of your evidence) is to organize it in a fashion that makes it easy for police to navigate through. Parents should be the ones doing all the posting at first, so they're modeling the behavior for their kids. Students’ use of texting has developed into an obsessive habit, whillock said. University of arkansas researchers say, however, that the problem may not be addiction, but obsessive-compulsive disorder. You all need each other and can have each other's backs. However, this research revealed that texting cannot be the primary mode of communication in a romantic relationship. Text-free time setting aside text-free time is a good way to create some boundaries. Here are 4 common texting problems that can complicate relationships, and what you can do to alleviate the pressure. Here is another email i received:. Four participants admitted that they regularly monitor their partner's text messages. Honestly, i’d much rather throw everything out there in the open and let the cards land where they may than have her operating in secrecy trying to tear me down. Based on participants' answers, it seems that the generation gap provides vast differences in style and understanding of text messages. Be aware of the dangers of obsessing over another person. " "how often do you check your texts before doing something else that you need to do. But, is it possible to think that there could be, in between the deafening ring tones and the obsessive text messaging, some redeeming educational qualities to these devices. As text messaging has boomed in recent years, it has also given rise to so-called textual harassment. I just spent two years as the obsessive and constantly mistrustful partner. No matter how many studies are run, common sense tells you that 20 texts an hour will disrupt a student's performance in school. Keeping lights off in rooms that you are not using. Text messaging can leave us isolated, socially awkward and overly reliant on our phones. i think that once you find someone compatible with you texting should just come naturally. It is necessary to rule out psychological or psychiatric causes prior to any spiritual treatment. The real problem became the content of the text messages and when they were sent. Since people are never far from their cell phones the messages can really antogonize the recipient. Either way, it was obvious that she has been obsessing, and is seriously looking for any pathetic reason to talk to him. They meet with the people have the same age and then start chatting and texting and after having a little understanding they meet in the real life for sexual activities. So, texting is on another side an addiction or obsession. As dictated by both the media ecology theory and my participants, text messaging has a profound impact on society. Composed cyberstalkers generally issue threats in an attempt to annoy and irritate the targets. Overall, text me what you feel like telling me. Because i’m strong enough to take it and your opinions don’t matter that much to me. You’ve heard it an eye-rolling number of times: anything you post online, or any message you send—be it a seemingly benign text or a photo taken when you were drunk—can come back to haunt you. The 28-year-old teacher resigned from her job and is currently awaiting trial, wtae reports. The findings have significant policy implications because most legislation prohibiting mobile phone usage while driving – which generally has failed – has relied on research that links dangerous and excessive usage to addictive traits. They are obsessional in the sense that they have persistent thoughts and ideas regarding the victim. The bdi is a self-administered questionnaire widely used to assess depressive symptoms. These plans cost an average of $20 a month for unlimited text messaging, and teens should be responsible for footing the bill. Dont call him leaving countless messages or email or text messages. For instance, "to hear voices" may be a case of obsession, but is usually a simple case of psychosis. All youve got to do is get him to regret the breakup. They state it gives teenagers an “element of ownership” that is very different from calling someone on a land line, and with unlimited texting plans, it’s no additional cost to parents. Some critics decry snapchat as a tool for sexting, but liew says people mostly send snaps during the day, making it unlikely that much racy content is being shared. “there is a genuine excitement about the lesson because they can use their own cell phone,” she says. Ishmael’s narrative contains many references to fate, creating the. Dove’s message was simple: you are your worst critic. We all had days like that even weeks. Sometimes an obsession holds us in its power and refuses to let us go because we simply haven't finished with it. Orent law offices can help you regain your sense of self and demand compensation for your suffering. But for some people (dating singles in particular), texting has morphed from a convenient commucation method to become the crux of their relationship communications. Anyone can be accused of cyberstalking, whether it’s a complete stranger, a friend, or even a relative. An obsessive person will spend inordinate amounts of time trying to please their partner in an ongoing effort to assure that the partner does not want to cheat on or leave them. If it feels like obsession, they drop it like it’s hot. How can you possibly trash and then call someone you supposedly loved a psycho. Criminal harassment is not new, but recognition of it as a distinct criminal behaviour is relatively recent. Once you are fresh then start thinking the actual reason of why your guy broke up with you. What are you trying to say. But even if our lives remain in balance, if the object of our obsession is taken from us, as my patient's was from her, we find ourselves devastated, often convinced we've lost our last chance at happiness. But is 50 texts a day appropriate. " mohandie and meloy recommend that risk management of this group involve professional protection of the target (since injury is likely to be more serious if violence does occur) and mental health professionals, who can tailor psychiatric and psychological interventions to mitigate risk. ” one of the things that has been so amazing has been how loving and sweet the responses i’ve gotten — people who have been kind and generous in sharing their experiences and told me how reading the essay made them think about their own relationships. I advise you to get a permit to carry and get a firearm. Everything boils down to language. If both partners talk via text in an honest and open manner, it’s fine to text a lot. An example of an important "note" would be: "on this page you will see where mr. In fact, 23% of teens say they send and receive over 100 messages each day. Who are white, is entirely dependent on a nonwhite harpooner, and. if you go overboard, it can cause a lot of problems. One thing can be certain for sure and that is texting does impact student's language skills to a small extent. And while your boyfriend constantly asking you where you've been and who you were with might set off alarms in your head, if he's sending you 50 texts a day asking you the same thing, you might brush it off. But with so many people hooked, the question becomes, how do you unplug and still stay connected. Texting excessively can interfere with work, relationships, school and other daily activities. If you're usually so crazy, angry or sad that you put off doing other things to wait and then end up making all sorts of excuses to explain this silence, it's probable that you're obsessed and that you're failing to get on with your life. Over-texting, harassment through text messaging, and obsessive texting should not be written off as a petty annoyance. A few things to caution: beware of autocorrect and look over your text before you press send, don’t want to get into an awkward situation if you can avoid it.